THERAPIST. AUTHOR. EDUCATOR.

Come home to the intimacy you were made for.

It begins inside, learning to feel without being swept away, and to grow towards the people who matter most. I'm Dan Oakes, and I've spent three decades helping people find their way back to themselves and each other.

Dan as the Founder and Director of the Arizona Family Institute
Books written by Dan Oakes MEd LPC
Dan as an owner and managing member of Humanintimacy.com
ABOUT

A life devoted to understanding the human experience.

For more than two decades, I’ve worked as a therapist helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges and create lasting change.

My approach is relational, insightful, and practical—grounded in deep listening and a belief in each person’s capacity for growth.

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25+ YEARS

of clinical experience

EXPERTISE

in sexual addiction, relationships,
and personal growth

AUTHOR & SPEAKER

sharing ideas that inform
and inspire

THE BOOK
 

Confident Conversations

Teaching Your Children To Develop Healthy Intimacy

A practical and thoughtful guide to helping children build healthy emotional connection, communication skills, and meaningful relationships that last.

 

 

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THE BOOK
 

3 Secrets to Manhood

The Gentle Art of Raising Strong Men

Practical guidance and timeless wisdom to help you raise grounded, confident, and emotionally strong sons in today’s world.

 

 

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